Monday, October 5, 2009

Ena Lelah wa Ina Elayhi Raje3oon

Early this morning my mother in law passed away:o(
She has been in a coma since last Friday, so we kinda of had a week to prepare for this....but you can never be prepared for a loved one dying...
I am just glad my husband went to Amman to see her when we heard the news. Everyone told him to stay put and not to go , it is useless...she is a coma, what is the point...but he got to spend some time with her...see her, touch her, talk to her, kiss her...I am so glad he did not listen and I was able to convince him to leave as soon as we got the news...
I am just so sad that I will never see her Tamer will never know his teta, and she never got to see Ziad (her favourite grandson) again...Bilal will never really know her, since last time he saw her he was only 3...I wish we were able to go to Amman this past summer...but my husband started a new job in May, and he could not take time off, and I could not travel alone with 3 kids including a little baby...:o(
May she rest in peace least now she will not be in any pain...something that she has lived with constantly for the past few years....Allah yer7amik khalto! :o(


nido said...

Allah yir7amha ou yi7sin ilha...
Your husband's lucky he got to see her before she passed away! A friend of us still feels bad for not being able to do so when his mom died :(

kinzi said...

Allah ya3zeekum, Sam. I am sorry for your loss, for your husband and your kids.

It was worth it to go. Even in a coma, you don't know what she could hear and feel within, and who knows what joy your husband could have brought her final hours. And he was able to pour that love back to the one who bore him, that is immeasurably valuable for him.

Summer said...

Inna Lillah Wa Inna Elaihe Raje3oon.

Hope you will pass on her good memories to your children. I am sure she is in a better place now. May God rest her soul and help you and her family to east this hard time on all of you.

Qwaider قويدر said...

انّا لله و انّا اليه راجعون .. الله يلهمكم الصبر و السلوان و يرحم موتاكم و يتقبّلهم في فسيح جنّاته... و العوض بسلامتكم

7aki Fadi said...

I am sorry for you loss and may her soul rest in peace.

and life goes on... said...

sorry for you loss.. allah yir7amha.. God bless her soul

Jundi said...

Allah yir7amha

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